We were truly amazed and couldnt believe our eyes; a mother who is used to break stones with a 20 kg sledgehammer all by herself. Nasiri is from Ramhormoz, a city in Irans south-western province of Khuzestan.Here is IFPs translation of a report by Iran newspaper:
How on earth could you do such an arduous labour, we wondered and she, with a heavy Khuzestani accent, said, Youd understand, if you were a mother.
Not satisfied with the answer, we kept on asking that, we understand that you are a devoted mother and there is no doubt in your love, unparalleled courage and unwavering faith, but doing this on a daily basis by a woman is unbelievable. Again, she sufficed it to say that youd understand if you were a mother
Her hands are in no way similar to the hands of the women we see every day; however, if you look through the eyes of your heart, youll find them the most beautiful hands on earth. Overworked hands with deep wrinkles, old calluses and healed scars For years, she would go to a mine in the vicinity of her living place to make money and support her 7 children by breaking up hard rocks.
Nasiri, the stonebreaker woman, was introduced as the countrys exemplary mother by the Cultural International Mother Foundation. She received the plaque of appreciation with her callused hands and tearful eyes and turned to the audience who were giving her a standing ovation and said, I am a mother and all Iranian mothers will sacrifice anything for their childrens convenience.
I Never Had a Childhood
Nasiri who is now 44 years old said that she was forced to marry a man 45 years older.
I lost my father and became an orphan when I was only 5. When my mother remarried, I was handed over to my cousin, she said, adding that, My nomadic life was spent on carrying the sheep to the plains and mountains, in winters and summers, with my cousins children.
She said since her cousin had a wife and children and often failed to meet the expenses, she acquiesced to get married at the age of 13.
I was an orphan and couldnt disagree. My husband was 45 years older than me, Nasiri said, regretting that she never had a childhood like others.
She added that they were nomads of Zagros Mountains and her husband was a livestock rancher. Every day, she used to get the sheep ready for grazing on the plains, do the house chores and milk the livestock.
I Fought Mountain Rocks for My Children
Children had to go all the way to Rud Zard-e Mashin village; however, their parents couldnt afford the fare of the school bus as the father had fallen from the mountain and become paralysed. They were forced to sell the 1 to 2 kilograms of rice they had in their house to pay for the fare. She described it as the bitterest moments of her life and said, It was that day when I made up my mind to fight the hard mountain rocks with a sledgehammer and a crowbar, she noted.
I didnt know what to do; tomorrow was ahead of us and my hands were empty, Nasiri noted, adding that she didnt sleep a wink all that night.
She went on to say that after the morning prayer, she was watching the sunrise over the mountain tops with a pensive look in her eyes that a sudden thought occurred to her. Early in the morning, she went out to buy a sledgehammer and a crowbar with the aim of making money by breaking up rocks.
I would work up until the sun was over my head and then I would return to our nomadic tent and make lunch, she said, adding that, after my husband and children had their lunch, I would get back to work up until the sunset.
At nights, I had to carry out my motherhood job for my children, make them dinner and put them to sleep through lullabies, she said, adding that, I couldnt sleep many nights because my hands were extremely sore; however, I never let my children know it.
Nasiri regretted that she was deprived of caressing her childrens faces because her hands had become rough. She went on to say that Rasoul and Soleiman, her children, grew up and sometimes helped him.
My Biggest Wish Is to Watch My Children Thrive
I just want my children to appreciate my efforts by studying and being successful; hence, most of the times I wouldnt let them come for help, she stressed.
Nasiri, who is an epitome of motherhood, has quitted stone breaking for around three years and plays with her only granddaughter Raheleh, the delight of her life. Nasiris biggest wish is to see her children climbing the steps of success. Qassem studies in Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz and Kazem in Imam Ali Officers Academy. Her daughters live with her and Rasoul and Soleiman have got married.
Nasiri says that her children have prohibited her from working for three years and added, My children are grateful for my efforts and I am happy that I have grown them up through making Halal money.
Every morning through the window I stare at the mountain that I broke up with my hands to prevent a breakup in my life, she concluded.
This news was translated by IFP from Iran Newspaper.
